Devaney was over at her friend’s house today and it finally happened. That ugly thing that parents, of other races, have had to help their children navigate for hundreds of years before today. Her friend’s older brother had some of his own buddies over playing basketball and, when Devaney went inside, one “It made me feel bad.\u00a0My friends\u00a0just told him that I wasn’t an immigrant, that I was half black. He just said ‘Oh, whatever’ and then kept playing. They told me what he said when I came back outside.\u00a0I acted like it didn’t bother me, but inside I felt like yelling at him.”<\/em> Her big, beautiful, brown eyes remained downcast toward the floor.<\/p>\n Look at me. Look at me, Devaney. You should<\/em> feel bad…but not for you. You should feel bad for him. It’s a sad thing that, sometime during the short sixteen years that boy’s been on this earth, someone else spoke to him about\u00a0– taught him – such stupidity. You should feel bad that, chances are, he is going to speak to – teach – that same stupidity to his own children. Did you ask him what Native American tribe he is a member of? He must<\/em> have some tribal affiliation if he’s concerning himself with any type of immigration…considering that\u00a0all<\/em> of the rest of us came from somewhere else.<\/p>\n Listen to me now, Baby. It’s time you start pre-formulating responses to this type of mess because when the time comes that you do <\/em>personally respond, you will have to counter such a lack of intelligence with a superior form of it. Uneducated people such as this will sound even more\u00a0ridiculous (even to those around them they were trying to impress in the first place) when their mindlessness is\u00a0countered by\u00a0the cognizant and versed truth you will spit at them.<\/p>\n Always<\/em> be\u00a0<\/a>proud of who you are. Always<\/em> remember that your joy cannot be stolen, it can only be given away. Always<\/em> be classy, compassionate,\u00a0rational and\u00a0enlightened –\u00a0as to not perpetuate the stereotypes they are trying to hate you for in the first place. Always<\/em> know that God designed and created you to this detail for a specific purpose. Always<\/em> shine with the brilliance of the light He put in you, that the darkness of the world\u00a0crumble\u00a0under the weight of its own hatefulness.<\/p>\n I love you, you\u00a0spectacular, phenomenal, extraordinary, stunning, marvelous, astonishing, fabulous, breathtaking, illuminating, brilliant, remarkable,\u00a0dazzling, sensational, prodigious gift to us all!<\/p>\n And like you said yourself – “Haters are your biggest fans!”<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Devaney was over at her friend’s house today and it finally happened. That ugly thing that parents, of other races, have had to help their children navigate for hundreds of years before today. Her friend’s older brother had some of … Continue reading ![\"\"](\"http:\/\/thisnest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/053-2.jpg\" "\\"024\\"")
<\/a><\/p>\nintelligence challenged<\/del> boy stated that Dev should go back to where she came from (Is he talking about my womb?!).\u00a0It’s true that while the mixed-race phenomenon is on the rise, we white folk have some catching up to do in the arena of teaching this part to our children. I had to think about this. I looked carefully at her pretty face as I still thought about this, and then I asked her how it made her feel.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n