{"id":1528,"date":"2011-04-19T14:29:04","date_gmt":"2011-04-19T21:29:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thisnest.com\/?p=1528"},"modified":"2011-04-19T14:38:15","modified_gmt":"2011-04-19T21:38:15","slug":"beyond-a-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/thisnest.com\/?p=1528","title":{"rendered":"Beyond A Birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"top\" \/><div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-1528 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='http:\/\/thisnest.com\/?attachment_id=1529'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"http:\/\/thisnest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/008-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='http:\/\/thisnest.com\/?attachment_id=1530'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"http:\/\/thisnest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/009-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='http:\/\/thisnest.com\/?attachment_id=1531'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"http:\/\/thisnest.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/014-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n<\/p>\n<p>How amazing is this?&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>My mother is the oldest girl of six kids, with only one brother. I am the oldest girl of seven kids, with only one brother!<\/p>\n<p>My mother&#8217;s first child was a boy, born on April 17th. My first child was a boy, born on April 17th!<\/p>\n<p>1969 and 1995&#8230;The April 17&#8217;s\u00a0of those years made parents\u00a0out of both my mama and myself (well, a few other things contributed too, lol).<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll never forget talking to my brother from the hospital room I was staying in. The biggest gift I could have offered him was his first nephew, born on his birthday. Doug was celebrating his 26th the day God delivered to me my first blessing. I know my brother would have been there if he hadn&#8217;t been living so far away at the time.<\/p>\n<p>Three years later, we would be dealing with another kind of hospital room&#8230;my brother would be involved in a life threatening car accident. We had virtually said goodbye to him. He was in a coma for two months&#8230;and the doctors said he would never wake up. They said that he would #1. Grow old asleep, or #2. Die of a complication such as a brain aneurysm. There seemed no hope. \u00a0I absorbed my mom&#8217;s desperation, listening to her cry and moan all night long, as we slept in the motor home we had parked outside the hospital. I had my (two now) children with me and I concentrated heavily on the fact that <em>my<\/em> first-born was warmly curled up next to me&#8230;while <em>her<\/em> first-born was in a different kind of sleep, separated from his mama by doctors, nurses, and hospital walls. It was a very long and painful time, but one that saw the unfolding of miracles right before our eyes.<\/p>\n<p>This past Sunday, we gathered as a family to celebrate both birthday boys&#8230;Doug turned forty-two and, to my grand disbelief, my beautiful Antonio turned sixteen. The time has simply flown by, taking with it many of the obstacles we have overcome&#8230;and having the decency to leave behind so many\u00a0beautiful memories\u00a0for us to enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>I am so proud of my\u00a0son <em>and<\/em> my brother. I continue to be impressed by the\u00a0development of the young man God designed my son to be&#8230;and I&#8217;m grateful that my only brother is around to see his oldest nephew, his birthday twin, fulfill his purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Birthday Doug and Tony! I love you both \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How amazing is this?&#8230; My mother is the oldest girl of six kids, with only one brother. I am the oldest girl of seven kids, with only one brother! 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