Counting Today’s Blessings


I am so grateful. Not rich – barely paying the bills, really. Not famous – just a few hundred readers, really. Not perfect – some wrinkles, stretch marks, cellulite, and personality flaws from that, really. Still, I am so grateful.
Can you imagine the amount of tears being shed by the friends and families of the Military’s fallen today? While we may all have our own opinions about what should or shouldn’t be going on over there, I’m talking about the mother who will never hold her son in her arms again. Can you imagine the dread faced by the parents who don’t know what they will feed their children today, or even if they can find water to give them? That kind of anguish is so far from my concerns over giving my kids Ramen noodles for lunch. Can you imagine the desperation felt by families who are being forced from their own homes today? Or the heartache felt by the mothers and fathers of terminally ill children today? Or the sudden and gripping loneliness of the lovers burying their soulmates today?
I’ll say it one more time…I am so grateful today. I have been making it a point in my daily life to let God know just how thankful I am for His many blessings. The roof over our heads – thank You. The health of my family…thank You. The cars that get us from A to B…thank You. The job, however difficult, that earns the money to pay the bills…thank You. The food, however budgeted it may be, that feeds my children…thank You. The water that we have to drink, bathe, wash our clothes and dishes in…thank You. Good schools for my children to learn in…thank You. Heat when it is cold and cool air when it is hot…thank You. The physical and mental capacities so graciously given to us, and the opportunities to use them…thank You. The blessing of a partner to love, who loves me back, to share all of these other blessings with…thank You, thank You, thank You.
I not a “glass half full” type of girl today…Instead, I am a “glass completely, totally, couldn’t fit another drop in there, all the way, filled up to the top” type of girl today.

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The Sparrow Says…#3

“Our children are the true integration, out of love, of all that was segregated, out of hate.” ~ Donna Sparrow

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Wordless Wednesday…”Chocolate On Caramel”

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Celebrating The Gray


I watched him intently as he talked about how he wanted to start reacting to people who had something funny to say about the gray taking over his chin…it involved a middle finger. His gorgeous brown eyes sparkled in response to my laughter. I was so content in that moment. Not because he can still make me giggle like a school girl…but because of the deeper meaning in those gray hairs that he now wears. I so often have the honor of seeing this animated and funny side of him, a side not always witnessed by others. My mind drifted to the years that have passed while earning the new color he has in his hair. I gotta say…I love each and every, silver strand and whisker. Genuinely. Passionately. Love.
Not one of them came easily – they were each earned. This one came from hardship. That one came from heartbreak. Another few came from time spent battling the obstacles so often placed in our paths…a few even came from battling me on occasion. At least five of those came in 1995, 1997, 1999, 2007, and 2009 – the years we were blessed with our children. He was always so worried during the first years of each new life…and the teen years seem to be adding more than their fair share of new gray now. As each of his younger siblings decided their own paths, or were stricken with tragedies that chose their paths for them, and strayed far from the successes we had hoped for during the time we raised them…POOF! Another gray few. And now, as the morning comes too early and the evenings last longer than he’d like, while working twelve hours a day to provide for us…well, you get the picture.
I see this man, and the new shades that he thinks are waging war against him, and I just have to say…you earned those the hard way, Baby! Wear those with pride as they are evidence of the fight, and definite markers of your victories. The same way my stretch marks are my metals of honor…so then are your gray hairs something to be proud of. I love you more than my own life and I would give my last heartbeat to you if you needed it. Each of those little reminders of the passage of time that you find so annoying, well, they only make me love you more…

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Wordless Wednesday…”Following In Daddy’s Footsteps”

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