My Hero

Saturday night left just the three of us (me and the baby boys) downstairs playing in the family room. Daddy was at Big Bruh-Bruh’s football game and the girls were busy upstairs watching Jersey Shore (puke) and pretending to have Jersey accents (f-u-n-n-y). As D’Lo, AD, and I rolled around on the floor…and as I tried to protect AD from himself as he climbed around on the couch in an attempt to keep up with brother…I really, really noticed what a good big brother D’Lo is quickly becoming. He laughs with AD, and he runs with AD, and he encourages AD to try and keep pace with him.

Then in the most precious display of all, D’Lo (who’s standing on top of his play table) squats down, wraps both arms around his little brother (who’s desperately trying to get up on the table too), nestles his little face in next to AD’s and says…

“Baby Bwuh-Bwuh…you my he-woh.”

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Wordless Wednesday…”Back To School 2010″

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Broken Heart

D’Lo in the kitchen (again), continually climbing up onto the counter. I finally have to give him a good swat to the hiney because I’m growing tired of repeating myself:

Big, brown eyes swelling up with real tears, looking soooooo sad…

Bottom lip turns out and drops…

“Oooooohhhhhhh…Mama…you bwoke my hawt!”

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Update On Baskin Robbins Discrimination

Went into a certain Baskin Robbins today, hoping to be able to meet up with this Kara (the manager)…she wasn’t there (again). The face that greeted me was the same one that discriminated against Antone (see post dated 8/23, titled In Walks Reality).

“Is Kara around?” I asked him

“No.” he replied nervously

“Well, I need to speak to her or the owners, do you have their contact information?”

“I’m not allowed to give that out, but I’m the assistant manager, can I…?”

“No” I cut him off, “When will Kara be available?” Starting to wonder now if he’s put two and two together, or if he remembers our strange, first encounter.

“I’m not sure.” he answers

“So, you can’t give me the manager’s or the owner’s contact info? aaaaannd, you can’t tell me when the manager will be here?!”

“No.” was his response again. “She manages another store and I never know when she’ll be here.”

“Well, what other store does she manage?” me

“Jantzen Beach.” him

“Thanks.” me

I got home and called the Jantzen Beach location, said a few words about the issue I have, and was given Kara’s cell number (I thought Andy said he wasn’t allowed to give this out, hmmmmm). So, I gave her a ring…waste of time. After listening to my complaint, she began directly with the excuses:

“I’m sorry if what happened made you unhappy.” she started (unhappy? No, Honey, I’m pissed off) “Andy wouldn’t have meant anything by it (Do they ever?), maybe he was just confused about the process (and then suddenly became unconfused when the Caucasian walked in?), I’ll talk to him tonight.”

“I respect the job you have to do, as a manager, regarding public relations, etc., and I can appreciate your need to protect your employee, but your employee gave two different answers to the same question within the same ten minutes…one to a black man and the other to a white woman…soooooo, either he’s racist or he’s sexist and I’m betting it’s the first (since he’s also a dude). He told my brother to apply online. Now, if he’s a supposed assistant manager, I’m assuming he knows there’s no place online to apply – which means he was giving the black guy the run around”…

“Well, maybe he just thought the girl was cute.” she said

(oh wow, did she really just say that?)

“K, that doesn’t change the fact that he lied to my brother about how to apply for employment with your company. So, as his manager you’ll talk to him or whatever, but do you really think he’s gonna admit to wrong-doing or do you think he’ll just make up stupid excuses (you know, like you’re doing right now)? Do what you’ve got to and I will do the same. Thanks for your time.”

Suggestions anyone??????

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The City

It was a beautiful day today. The sun was shining, but not too hot. The light breeze was gently kissing our shoulders as it danced past us. I took the boys up to this amazing, little, city part I found. It’s sort of an oxymoron…this city park sits out about a mile into the country. It’s up on a hill and overlooks the awesome, untouched landscape…just a few homes, farms, and white picket fences.

I was totally in the moment…thanking God for his blessings, without even saying a word…just “feeling” thankful, and I knew He could hear how loudly I was shouting my gratitude – even in my silence. My children, happy and healthy, giggling, climbing, running, being little, carefree children.

Then, like a silly stick cutting right through this serious moment of appreciation…

(D’Lo standing atop the hill, looking down upon the countryside)

“Mom! (not Mommy or Mama) Mom! I can see the whole city!”

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